Devotion:
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Read Exodus 20:12.
“Honor your father and your mother, so that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you.” (Exodus 20:12) There are a number of scriptures in the Bible that look good on the page but sometimes are hard to put into practice. At first glance, you wouldn’t think this is one of the tough ones. Honoring one’s parents is important in almost every culture and faith tradition. But families and family relationships can sometimes be problematic. Even Jesus had family issues from time to time. And the families in Genesis and Exodus and elsewhere in the Old Testament often had notorious issues and conflicts that went on across generations. Much of the time, there seemed to be more fighting than honoring!
But in this scripture, like the rest of the Bible, it seems that God is looking at things from a long view. And maybe we should as well. We are called to honor our parents, but it is also clear that none of us have perfect parents. It’s also clear that our parents didn’t have perfect children (despite the claims I make to my siblings). The older I get, the more I appreciate my parents, and the more I understand how hard it can be at times to be a parent. Perhaps we can honor the love that our parents tried to share with us on both the good and not so good days.


